{"id":6554,"date":"2026-10-15T20:26:00","date_gmt":"2026-10-15T18:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/?p=6554"},"modified":"2026-10-16T06:19:24","modified_gmt":"2026-10-16T04:19:24","slug":"vraie-vie-dematerialisee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/vraie-vie-dematerialisee\/","title":{"rendered":"Vraie vie d\u00e9mat\u00e9rialis\u00e9e"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_4226-1024x768.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6555\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_4226-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_4226-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_4226-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_4226-1536x1151.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_4226-2048x1535.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Imaginez qu&rsquo;on vous pr\u00eate une manette de jeu vid\u00e9o, mais que le grand fr\u00e8re ou la grande s\u0153ur la garde dans sa main, appuie sur tous les boutons \u00e0 votre place et vous dise : \u00ab tu peux regarder, mais interdiction de toucher aux commandes. \u00bb Est-ce que vous jouez vraiment ? Vous regardez quelqu&rsquo;un d&rsquo;autre s&rsquo;amuser en essayant de vous faire croire que c&rsquo;est votre tour.<br>C&rsquo;est un peu ce qui arrive \u00e0 certains bip\u00e8des et en particulier les miens.<br>Il semble que le vrai choix du \u00ab\u00a0oui\u00a0\u00bb et du \u00ab\u00a0non\u00a0\u00bb soit difficile \u00e0 op\u00e9rer. Pour qu&rsquo;un accord ait de la valeur, il faut avoir le droit de dire non \u00e0 une situation absurde. Imaginez qu&rsquo;on vous impose une r\u00e8gle, en vous for\u00e7ant \u00e0 dire oui sous la menace, pour ensuite vous culpabiliser d&rsquo;avoir fait ou pens\u00e9 le contraire&#8230; il ne s&rsquo;agit plus d&rsquo;un accord mais d&rsquo;une arnaque.<br>Dans ces conditions, mieux vaut-il \u00eatre acteur ou bien subir confortablement des r\u00e8gles arbitraires et sans fondement ?<br>L&rsquo;asc\u00e8te d\u00e9cide tout seul de se passer de quelque chose, il garde le contr\u00f4le de sa vie et de sa dignit\u00e9, pr\u00e9f\u00e8rant attendre d&rsquo;avoir un vrai contact avec son interlocuteur, aux faux semblants.<br>La marionnette est cette personne na\u00efve \u00e0 qui l&rsquo;on r\u00e9ussit \u00e0 imposer des r\u00e8gles injustes et qui va les adopter avec le sourire.<br>Elle acceptera une situation absconse, simplement pour faire plaisir \u00e0 l&rsquo; autre, en se laissant pi\u00e9tiner. <br>Je pr\u00e9f\u00e9re poser des limites et dire stop pour me prot\u00e9ger, afin de pr\u00e9server mon int\u00e9grit\u00e9 physique et morale. Pas vous ?<br><br>Kandide et ses poules<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6554","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uvdc"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6554","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6554"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6554\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6579,"href":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6554\/revisions\/6579"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6554"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6554"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6554"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}