{"id":5946,"date":"2026-04-21T15:42:16","date_gmt":"2026-04-21T13:42:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/?p=5946"},"modified":"2026-04-21T19:59:57","modified_gmt":"2026-04-21T17:59:57","slug":"dominance-nest-pas-respect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/dominance-nest-pas-respect\/","title":{"rendered":"Dominance n&rsquo;est pas Respect"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2409-1024x768.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3718\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2409-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2409-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2409-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2409-1536x1151.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2409-2048x1535.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_2409-scaled.jpeg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Dominance n&rsquo;est pas Respect ou l&rsquo;art de ne pas prendre tes potes pour des r\u00e2teliers mobiles.<br>Dans le monde enchant\u00e9 du Prince Kandide du Pr\u00e9 Carr\u00e9, le troupeau de belettes, de carpes ko\u00ef, de pique-b\u0153ufs et de poules pondeuses ob\u00e9it \u00e0 une r\u00e8gle d&rsquo;or : on ne galope jamais au coup de sifflet. Pourtant notre petit Kandide, tout fier de son nouveau statut, en a fait les frais.<br>Sous l\u2019influence de la vieille matonne dominante, Kandide s\u2019\u00e9tait mis en t\u00eate qu&rsquo;il serait le chef d\u2019orchestre du Tempo Universel.<br>Dans sa certitude de d\u00e9tenir la Raison Collective (et toutes les cl\u00e9s de tous les abris de l&rsquo;infini et au del\u00e0), il pensait que son hennissement imp\u00e9rieux suffirait pour faire trembler les sabots, les griffes, les nageoires de tout le voisinage.<br>&#8211; D\u00e9cider de l\u2019allure ? Facile. <br>&#8211; Choisir quelle mangeoire tout le monde devrait utiliser ? \u00c9l\u00e9mentaire.<br>&#8211; D\u00e9cr\u00e9ter que tout le monde devra s&rsquo;enfuir \u00e0 l\u2019autre bout du pr\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019instant pr\u00e9cis qu&rsquo;il l&rsquo;aura d\u00e9cid\u00e9? Un jeu d&rsquo;enfant.<br>&#8211; Refiler au petit peuple ses vieux restes de foin ? Une \u00e9vidence!<br>Le probl\u00e8me, c&rsquo;est que Kandide ne comprend pas pourquoi certains de ses copains, depuis quelques temps, ne lui embo\u00eetent plus le pas imm\u00e9diatement, avec cette gratitude \u00e9ternelle et qui nourrissait jusque l\u00e0 son besoin de reconnaissance et son ego. Les d\u00e9cisions lumineuses et unilat\u00e9rales de sa majest\u00e9 princi\u00e8re \u00e9taient pourtant uniques au monde.<br>Dans le cas des bip\u00e8des, \u00e0 travers leur relation avec les chevaux, imposer un changement de pied en l&rsquo;air au dernier moment, sans laisser \u00e0 son cheval la volont\u00e9 de coop\u00e9rer et le temps de se pr\u00e9parer \u00e0 le faire dans de bonnes conditions, ce n&rsquo;est plus une \u00ab\u00a0invitation au partage\u00a0\u00bb, c&rsquo;est une injonction, une soumission forc\u00e9e. Cela revient \u00e0 mettre de force un licol invisible sur la t\u00eate de ceux qu&rsquo;il pr\u00e9tend respecter et choyer. <br>Sous couvert de complicit\u00e9, notre petit polisson de Kandide exige en r\u00e9alit\u00e9 une soumission absolue et sans condition \u00e0 son agenda de ministre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pourtant, n&rsquo;importe quel mammif\u00e8re bip\u00e8de avec du tact, sait que pour demander un d\u00e9part au galop, on met d\u2019abord sa monture dans les bonnes conditions physiques et morales pour acc\u00e9der \u00e0 cette demande et dans l&rsquo;\u00e9quilibre qui convient. Il l&rsquo;avertit, il pr\u00e9pare sa demande, ensuite il propose et le cheval dispose, de bonne volont\u00e9 pour coop\u00e9rer. Il s&rsquo;agit d&rsquo;une invitation polie, pas  d&rsquo;une mise en demeure par huissier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A ce mammif\u00e8re-bip\u00e8de maladroit qui exigerait une ob\u00e9issance imm\u00e9diate pour une figure de man\u00e8ge, \u00e0 une lettre pr\u00e9cise du man\u00e8ge, sans pr\u00e9paration et sans laisser le choix, ce serait un peu comme s&rsquo;il disait:<br>&#8211; Tu fais ce que je dis, c&rsquo;est moi qui d\u00e9cide, et ton avis, je m&rsquo;en sers pour pailler mon abri.<br>Le mammif\u00e8re-bip\u00e8de (ou le poulain) qui se comporte ainsi, n\u2019installera jamais une relation de confiance et de respect. Parceque ce personnage ind\u00e9licat qui agit de la sorte ne cherche pas une relation d&rsquo;amiti\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00e9galit\u00e9 : Cet individu l\u00e0 cherche seulement \u00e0 dominer son monde, \u00e0 faire ob\u00e9ir ses subalternes, des suiveurs, pour le plaisir de les dresser \u00e0 la baguette.<br><br>Epona<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dominance n&rsquo;est pas Respect ou l&rsquo;art de ne pas prendre tes potes pour des r\u00e2teliers mobiles.Dans le monde enchant\u00e9 du 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