{"id":5595,"date":"2025-10-29T23:59:00","date_gmt":"2025-10-29T22:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/?p=5595"},"modified":"2025-11-30T08:01:27","modified_gmt":"2025-11-30T07:01:27","slug":"bombardement-affectif-et-culpabilisation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/bombardement-affectif-et-culpabilisation\/","title":{"rendered":"Bombardement affectif et culpabilisation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_3520-1024x768.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5596\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_3520-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_3520-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_3520-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_3520-1536x1151.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_3520-2048x1535.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/aequus.fr\/journaldebord\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_3520-scaled.jpeg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Aujourd&rsquo;hui j&rsquo;ai discut\u00e9 avec mes voisines \u00e0 plumes de la ferme voisine et elles m&rsquo;ont fait part de leur pr\u00e9occupation. Leur bip\u00e8de leur fait un chantage affectif depuis un bon moment d\u00e9j\u00e0 et il s&rsquo;incruste r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement dans leur petit poulailler tranquille, pour r\u00e9cup\u00e9rer tous les futurs poussins; vu de loin, j&rsquo;ai le sentiment que ce n&rsquo;est pas sympa pour les copines et que son but est de dominer la famille enti\u00e8re, de se sentir exister et pourquoi pas, de faire par la m\u00eame occasion, une captation de ressources. Cela s&rsquo;apparente un peu \u00e0 une forme de grooming affectif, auquel s&rsquo;ajouterait une forme de d\u00e9pendance induite par un renforcement intermittent : tout se passe comme si la fermi\u00e8re cr\u00e9ait un lien fusionnel avec ses poules pour en extraire leur ob\u00e9issance et \u00eatre en mesure d&rsquo;en recueillir la totalit\u00e9 des ressources (de l&rsquo;\u0153uf au poussin).<br>La port\u00e9e psychologique de cette attitude toxique pour les poules me fait penser \u00e0 une inversion maternelle: la fermi\u00e8re transforme l\u2019amour inconditionnel en une dette \u00e9ternelle, annihilant l\u2019autonomie des jeunes poulettes, qui vivent d\u00e9sormais sans aucune libert\u00e9, m\u00eame si elles en ont l&rsquo;impression.<br>Sous un angle philosophique ce n&rsquo;est gu\u00e8re plus joyeux, je ressens chez le bip\u00e8de, une volont\u00e9 de possession et de domination \u00e9go\u00efste, d\u00e9guis\u00e9es en bienveillance.<br>Kandide<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center 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